“Lost In Perception”
Wednesday, August 13th, 2008Below is a recent sermon from the Rev. Paul Burns, who is pastor of our sister church, Priestlake Presbyterian Church (USA) in Nashville, TN.
August 10, 2008
Matthew 14:22-33
Genesis 37:1-28
Jacob does not do his son Joseph any favors by loving him above his brothers. He seals his fate, by giving him a physical reminder of his preferential love: a fancy robe. Every time his brothers saw Joseph in this robe, they were reminded that their father loved him more, and they hated him for it.
But Joseph doesn’t help his case much either. Perhaps he is naïve or just plain ignorant of his position of privilege in the family. But he has this dream where it appears that his brothers will bow down to him. A prudent person would keep that kind of dream to himself, but not Joseph. He adds fuel to his brothers’ fire by telling them.
And if that isn’t enough, when he has a second dream where it appears that even his father and mother will bow to him, he tells them again. Even after his brothers berated him for telling the first dream, he tells the second dream. This kid is asking for it. And, yes, he gets it. You heard the story.
I can’t tell you how many times I have heard someone say, “I don’t believe in organized religion.” It seems to be a growing sentiment here in America, even in the Bible belt. People have been turned off by the Church. I’m not telling you something you don’t know.
Every church in country is trying to address this very problem. I can’t tell you I’m going to give you the magic answer either.
So what’s the problem?
Let’s look again at Joseph. Joseph is loved by his father and he knows it. He wears his coat proudly. Nothing wrong with that. But it alienates his brothers. To make it worse he perhaps unwittingly proclaims his superior position by sharing the dreams where they all bow down to him.
The church can be like Joseph. We know God loves us. God has chosen the church. The church is the bride of Christ. We are special blessed and favored.
I remember a pastor I worked with at the hospital for a summer. Anytime I asked him how he was doing he would answer, “Blessed and highly favored!” Nothing wrong with saying that, but it does lead a person to wonder who he is favored over. To be favored, means that there are others who are less favored or not favored at all. In Presbyterian terms, to be chosen seems to mean that there are those who are not chosen.
Recently it was reported that Presbyterians have the highest per capita income of any other denomination. It would seem that we have been blessed and highly favored. There’s nothing wrong with having good income, but if we say that God has blessed us in this way, it may seem that it means that God has withheld blessing from others.
If we say we are chosen by God or we are saved by God’s grace, then it would be easy for a person not in the church to draw the conclusion that God has withheld grace from them. And just like Joseph’s brothers those outside the church become alienated. We wear our salvation proudly, like Joseph’s coat. Nothing wrong with it. But people could get the wrong idea.
Joseph’s dream of superiority is another problem that the church must safeguard against. The church has a long history of domination. It has strayed and continues to stray from the model of Christ of servant leadership. It can become very apparent by how we do evangelism. We stride into the communities of the “unchurched”, a word that has replaced the antiquated word “heathen”, and we seek to enlighten people with the light of Christ.
Now, we don’t do anything wrong. In fact, we are trying to do what Christ chose us to do. But something gets lost in perception. It’s easy to come off as “look how special I am”. I’m blessed and highly favored, how about you?
And what about people whose lives are marked by tragedy and poverty? Do they feel blessed and highly favored? Many people look at the church’s lack of action, they see churches that are only about self-help and not about serving the poor, and they say what good is the church? And like Joseph’s brothers they are angry, and they can either direct their anger towards the Father for his preferential love or they can hate the one with the fancy coat on. It’s easier to hate the one with the coat.
And so many people in the world do not like the church. And I’ll be honest. Some times I don’t like the church either. We seem to cause more problems than we solve sometimes. A lot gets lost in perception. What we must recognize to live as a chosen one, is what it means to be chosen. To be chosen, does not mean superiority or domination. It means humility and service. God puts the church and each one in it in the position to serve others.
We are not here to be bowed down to. We are here to do the bowing down. Joseph finally realizes this. As Joseph had risen to the heights of leadership in the Egyptian government, his brothers had become very poor. They came to him to seek his forgiveness for the evil they had done to him. And his brothers fell down before him just like the dream. Joseph wept and said these words, “Do not fear, for am I in the place of God? As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to bring it about that many people should be kept alive, as they are today. So do not fear, I will provide for you and your little ones.”
He did not make his brothers feel less than him. And he did not raise himself up. “Am I in the place of God?” he said. In other words, we are all less compared to God. He received them with love and kindness and pledged to provide for them.
In the end, while Joseph may have been preferred by his earthly father, his heavenly Father loves them all. He chose all 12 brothers to be the first of Israel. Each brother represents an equally chosen tribe of Israel. And God promises that all of the tribes, even the lost will be returned and restored. Each of them shall receive a fancy coat.
Let us remember, that we are here to serve others. And let us remember that the people we serve are in no way inferior to us, they are not less or more loved by God. They are no less or more chosen than we are. And in the end, all God’s chosen shall be returned and restored. Let us receive people with love and kindness. Let us not wear our salvation as an emblem of achievement or favored-ness. But let our salvation be seen in the way we live.