Open Mouth, Insert Foot
Thursday, July 17th, 2008SCRIPTURE: James 3:1-18 (The Message translation)
When You Open Your Mouth
1 Don’t be in any rush to become a teacher, my friends. Teaching is highly responsible work. Teachers are held to the strictest standards. 2 And none of us is perfectly qualified. We get it wrong nearly every time we open our mouths. If you could find someone whose speech was perfectly true, you’d have a perfect person, in perfect control of life. 3 A bit in the mouth of a horse controls the whole horse. 4 A small rudder on a huge ship in the hands of a skilled captain sets a course in the face of the strongest winds. 5 A word out of your mouth may seem of no account, but it can accomplish nearly anything—or destroy it! It only takes a spark, remember, to set off a forest fire. 6 A careless or wrongly placed word out of your mouth can do that. By our speech we can ruin the world, turn harmony to chaos, throw mud on a reputation, send the whole world up in smoke and go up in smoke with it, smoke right from the pit of hell. 7 This is scary: You can tame a tiger, 8 but you can’t tame a tongue—it’s never been done. The tongue runs wild, a wanton killer. 9 With our tongues we bless God our Father; with the same tongues we curse the very men and women he made in his image. 10 Curses and blessings out of the same mouth! My friends, this can’t go on. 11 A spring doesn’t gush fresh water one day and brackish the next, does it? 12 Apple trees don’t bear strawberries, do they? Raspberry bushes don’t bear apples, do they? You’re not going to dip into a polluted mud hole and get a cup of clear, cool water, are you?
Live Well, Live Wisely
13 Do you want to be counted wise, to build a reputation for wisdom? Here’s what you do: Live well, live wisely, live humbly. It’s the way you live, not the way you talk, that counts. 14 Mean-spirited ambition isn’t wisdom. Boasting that you are wise isn’t wisdom. Twisting the truth to make yourselves sound wise isn’t wisdom. 15 It’s the furthest thing from wisdom—it’s animal cunning, devilish conniving. 16 Whenever you’re trying to look better than others or get the better of others, things fall apart and everyone ends up at the others’ throats. 17 Real wisdom, God’s wisdom, begins with a holy life and is characterized by getting along with others. It is gentle and reasonable, overflowing with mercy and blessings, not hot one day and cold the next, not two-faced. 18 You can develop a healthy, robust community that lives right with God and enjoy its results only if you do the hard work of getting along with each other, treating each other with dignity and honor.
MEDITATION
The Christians in James’ congregation had problems trying to live out this moral law to love our neighbor as ourselves. Specifically, James listed three problems that his church had as they tried to live out this moral law of love. What does it mean to you’re your neighbor as yourself and you do not care take of the widows and orphans? Christians neglected the widows and orphans; Christian people did not care of the widows and orphans in their midst. We find the same problem in the book of Acts; that is, people were not taking care of the homeless and hurting people in the book of Acts. And so James said, “Religion which is pure and undefiled is this: it is to care for widows and orphans in their suffering and to remain unstained from the world.”
A second problem that James noticed, as his people were trying to live out the moral law of loving your neighbor was yourself, was this: The Christians in his congregation were showing favoritism to rich people who were coming into the church. The richer Christians were ignoring the poorer Christians and were not being generous at all to the poor. One Christian said, “I have faith,” and the next Christian said, “Well, I have charitable love.” So James finally said, “Faith without works of charity is dead, just as a body without a soul is dead, so faith without works of love is dead.” You cannot separate faith from charitable love.
There was third problem that James noticed in his congregation. You are to love your neighbor as yourself. This is the royal law, the perfect law, the law of love. But what does this mean in terms of the tongue? This theme is found in chapters one, three and four. It is one of the most dominant themes in the book of James.
I would like for you to try an experiment with me. We are going to exercise choice, make a decision and then watch the power of our words cause a physical reaction … thousands of neural circuits will be engaged as we do this.Repeat after me… “I love you.” Now repeat my words again… “I hate you.”Do you see? — We are entrusted with a great power here. We are given a gift that can create or destroy. We can build up or tear down with this gift. Do you remember that one of the strongest warnings Jesus ever issued has to do with the matter of how we use our speech? Listen carefully: “I tell you, on the day of judgment you will have to give an account for every careless word you utter…” Matt. 12:36 Why is this issue so important to Jesus, and to his brother James? The fact is, our power of speech is very close to the issue of our being created in the image of God. Word is powerful. It is by the power of the Word that God created the universe. When God said, “Let there be…” there was! It is the Word become flesh that brought us salvation. The author of the letter to the Hebrews says, The Word of God is living and powerful — it is sharper than any two edged sword.” [Heb. 4:12] We can draw people to the love of God with our speech or we can turn them off. We can set the course of a child’s life with a careless word and turn a young person around with a positive nourishing word. Brothers and sisters, as we are called to participate in God’s mission of the world, our words are powerful tools in God’s hands as God creates, redeems, and reconciles all things to God’s self.
Remember, when words spew out of our mouths with out great thought or care it is like trying to get the toothpaste back into the tube after it has spewed all over the bathroom sink. Be mindful, and listen to God to who gives us words, especially in the most stressful and anxious times, and let us not be quick to speak out so we may be more creative in the Spirit of God than destructive and contrary to God’s desire.